The spicier it gets, the fewer takers?
Common sense says the bolder the activity, the fewer people will want it. We checked level by level - here is what the answers actually look like.
How many are up for it, level by level
From 71% at the gentlest activities to 33% at the most explicit: the share who answer “Yes, but I’m shy about it” or “Love this!”
Women and men - who wants it more?
Each level shows where women and men land; the line between the two dots is the gap.
The four shades of an answer
Each answer is one of the four options in the game: “Definitely no,” “If my partner wants,” “Yes, but I’m shy about it,” or “Love this!” Watch how the mix shifts level by level.
Method
Every activity carries an intensity rating from gentlest to most explicit. For each level we pool every answer from both partners and measure the share choosing each option: “Definitely no,” “If my partner wants,” “Yes, but I’m shy about it,” and “Love this!” Willingness means the last two combined. Anonymized and aggregated; no response can be traced to a person or couple.
Data is refreshed once a day. Last update: 01.10.2026, 04:45
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