The spicier it gets, the fewer takers?
Common sense says the bolder the activity, the fewer people will want it. We checked level by level - here is what the answers actually look like.
How many are up for it, level by level
Share who answer “gladly” or “love it,” from 71% at the gentlest activities to 40% at the most explicit.
Where the sexes pull apart
The same willingness, women against men, shaped across the five intensity levels. The gap between the two outlines is the gender difference at each level.
The four shades of an answer
Every answer split four ways: a flat “no,” a cautious “only for you,” a shy “gladly, though shy,” and an open “love it.” Watch how the mix shifts level by level.
Method
Every activity carries an intensity rating from gentlest to most explicit. For each level we pool every answer from both partners and measure the share choosing each option: “no,” “only for you,” “gladly, though shy,” and “love it.” Willingness means the last two combined. Anonymized and aggregated; no response can be traced to a person or couple.
Data is refreshed once a day. Last update: 23.06.2026, 12:22
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