Most data about couples is about what they want. This is the opposite: the categories where both partners, answering separately and without seeing each other, said “no”. A “no” that both people share is not a rejection. It is a boundary they already agree on.
52%of couples agree on “no” in the category they reject most often. Across everything else, 45% of answers are a shared “yes”, couples agree far more often than they disagree.
The categories couples turn down together
The top bar shows how often both partners said “no” to the same thing. The bottom one: how often both said “yes” in that same category. Two poles of one category, on the same scale.
More Than TwoFantasies and scenarios where someone else enters the picture: from an evening with another couple to opening things up. A topic worth an honest talk.
both say “no”52%
both say “yes”15%
Intense SensationsA chapter for couples who like to feel more, and feel it stronger. No half measures, but always on your terms and only when you both want it.
both say “no”26%
both say “yes”33%
Anal PleasureA direction that asks for trust and patience: from gentle touches to full closeness. At your own pace, entirely on your own terms.
both say “no”23%
both say “yes”31%
Recordings and StoriesFilms for grown-ups, footage of your own, messages that raise the temperature in the middle of the day. Desire captured in pictures and words.
both say “no”21%
both say “yes”34%
Toys and AccessoriesLittle things that can change a lot: from bedside classics to the kind you can take out for the evening. See which ones spark your curiosity.
both say “no”16%
both say “yes”38%
Beyond the BedroomThe car, a beach at night, the kitchen counter. The thrill of places you're not supposed to, which is exactly why they tempt. See how far you'd go.
both say “no”14%
both say “yes”46%
Roles and ScenariosAn evening as someone else entirely: strangers on a first date, characters in a story of your own. Imagination sets the stage, the two of you do the rest.
both say “no”7%
both say “yes”43%
Watching and Being WatchedA slow striptease, a mirror, a camera in hand. The pleasure of looking at each other, and the quiet thrill of knowing you're being admired.
both say “no”7%
both say “yes”54%
Closeness and TouchSlow moments together: warm hands, unhurried touch, skin against skin. A chapter for evenings when you have all the time in the world.
both say “no”6%
both say “yes”55%
PositionsFrom the classics to the ones that take a little practice. A chance to find a new favorite way of being as close as two people can get.
both say “no”4%
both say “yes”63%
Power and TrustOne of you leads, the other lets go, and trust does the rest. Find out which role tempts each of you, and how far you'd like to take it.
both say “no”4%
both say “yes”64%
Solo, TogetherYour own touch, shared: one shows, the other watches, sometimes both at once. An intimate lesson in what pleasure looks like for each of you.
both say “no”4%
both say “yes”66%
Oral PleasureA kind of pleasure that needs no words at all. Find out how much of it you both want to give, and how much you'd love to receive.
We count couples where both partners finished the quiz and both answered the same activity. A category counts as a shared “no” when both partners chose the most negative option, independently and without seeing each other’s answers. Percentages are shares of all fully answered activity pairs in that category. A category appears only once at least 100 different couples have answered in it, and the whole page needs at least 500 couples. Anonymized and aggregated; no answer can be traced to a person or couple.
Data is refreshed once a day. Last update: 23.08.2026, 04:46
