The Position Repertoire: How Adventurous Are Couples?
What couples answer
When people answer quiz questions about widening the repertoire of positions with their partner, the split looks like this:
| Answer | Share of partners |
|---|---|
| Love this! | 62.7% |
| Yes, but I’m shy about it | 12.6% |
| If my partner wants | 16.6% |
| Definitely no | 8.1% |
This is one of the biggest categories in the quiz, and the score sits comfortably in the upper half without reaching the top. Read that as a repertoire question rather than an adventure question: people are not asking for a different kind of sex, they are open to more variety inside the kind they already have. Defaults form early in a relationship, usually by accident rather than choice, and almost nobody revisits them on purpose.
How to read these numbers
A clear majority leans in: 75 out of 100 partners answer positively. If widening the repertoire of positions feels like a minority interest in your relationship, the data says otherwise - the hesitation is usually about starting the conversation, not about the appetite.
Another 16.6% pick “If my partner wants” (men see this answer as “If she wants it”). That is a conditional yes: they would not bring it up themselves, but they would go along with it for their partner. We leave them out of the yes count above, but they are not saying no either.
The gap between “Love this!” (62.7%) and “Yes, but I’m shy about it” (12.6%) matters as well: the first group wants it without a second thought, the second wants it but feels shy saying so. And remember these are individual answers, not couples. One partner saying yes does not tell you what the other one would say. The only way to find out is to ask, or to let a game ask for you.
Do you know which side your partner is on?
In 33.6% of couples, one partner says yes to something in this category and the other does not, either turning it down or leaving it up to their partner. In 71% of couples, both say yes to at least one of these questions. A mismatch is nothing to worry about. Two different people rarely want exactly the same things, and it only becomes a problem when nobody says it out loud.
About this data
The numbers come from quiz data from more than 2,200 couples (over 8,100 individual answers) playing Privé, a private quiz game for two. We only count rounds where both partners finished, we exclude test accounts, and we only publish a statistic when at least 500 answers stand behind it. Individual answers are never visible to anyone - in the game itself, an answer is only ever revealed to a partner when both said yes to the same thing. Data read in September 2026.
A note on these numbers. They come from people who chose to play a game about intimacy, so as a group we lean more open than the general population. Read these percentages as a reference point for couples like you, not as a portrait of society.
And if any question puts you in the one percent, on either side, that is fine. Preferences are not a contest the majority wins. What matters is that you both agree and that nobody gets hurt.
See how the two of you compare
Averages are a conversation starter, not a verdict - the only split that matters is the one between the two of you. Play a free round of Privé: you each answer the same questions separately, and only the things you both said yes to are revealed.