Couples preference analysis

How bold couples are before they even play

Before a single question, every couple sets the dial: gentle (a soft, warm-up start), exploratory (from everyday life to fantasies), or no holds barred (full depth, no brakes). The starting dial is the middle one - so every couple that reaches for the boldest level chose it on purpose. Here is how that appetite really splits.

56% of couples reach straight for “no holds barred” - the boldest level - even though the dial starts one notch gentler. And you two?

How couples set the dial

Gentle 9%, exploratory 35%, no holds barred 56%. Each couple is counted once, on the level they started with.

Gentle - a soft, warm-up start 9%

Exploratory - from everyday life to fantasies (the default) 35%

No holds barred - full depth, no brakes 56%

[OC]Source: anonymous couples quiz · 3,483 couples

Method

Each couple picks a boldness level at the start of the game; the middle level is preselected, so choosing gentler or bolder is a deliberate move. We count couples where both partners finished the quiz, each once, on the level they began with. Anonymized and aggregated; no response can be traced to a person or couple.

Data is refreshed once a day. Last update: 13.07.2026, 16:14

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